
When Church Couples Feel Tired and Distant
Many couples in our churches quietly feel Many couples in our churches quietly feel more like roommates than partners. They show up, serve, smile in the lobb...
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Practical advice and guidance articles for church leaders and ministry contexts.
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Many couples in our churches quietly feel Many couples in our churches quietly feel more like roommates than partners. They show up, serve, smile in the lobb...

You care deeply for the couples in your church. You see their tired faces on Sunday. You notice the way some husbands and wives sit side by side but feel a l...

Many couples in our churches quietly feel more like roommates than partners. They show up, serve, smile in the lobby, and know exactly how to say, "We're goo...

You can usually sense when the marriages in your church feel off, long before anyone says it out loud. The couples who used to laugh together now barely make...

Many pastors look out over the room on Sunday and know some couples at home feel more like roommates than husband and wife. They serve, give, show up for the...

You can feel it before anyone says a word.

Caring for struggling couples is one of the most tender parts of ministry. It is also one of the heaviest. You move from sermon prep to hospital visits, to s...

Caring about the marriages in your church is a beautiful part of your calling. But when you look out on a Sunday and see couples who are hurting, it can star...

Some weeks, it feels like every other message is, "Pastor, can we talk about our marriage?" The calendar is full, the sermons still need to be written, and y...

You see the strain in your people. A spouse lingers after the service. The prayer requests keep circling back to the same quiet word: marriage. You carry tha...

Church can be one of the easiest places to look like everything is fine in your marriage. You smile in the lobby, pass out bulletins, sing during worship, an...

I sat down for lunch with a pastor friend a while back, and I could tell he was carrying something heavy. He just looked worn out.